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Men’s Programs and Supports

Specialist programs and intervention services are available for men who choose to use violence, threaten to use violence, or use any of a range of abusive behaviour’s towards their family members, including partners and children, that coerces or controls the family member or causes fear.

Perpetrator is a word commonly used because the person who is choosing to use violence is the direct cause of harm. The term perpetrator is defined as a person who carries out harmful, illegal or immoral acts. Therefore a person who chooses to use violence is identified as a perpetrator of violene

Referring to this group as ‘men who choose to use violence’ is commonly used because using violence is a choice. Men can choose not to be violent.

Male is also the gender referred to as evidence overwhelmingly shows that men primarily perpetrate violence against women.

It is recognised men and those who identify as a non-binary gender also experience family and domestic violence and require support and intervention.

Types of services and supports available

Men who choose to use violence towards or abuse their family members can, with commitment and support, change. There are services available for men who choose to use violence. They are commonly known as ‘Men’s Behaviour Change Programs’ or ‘Perpetrator Intervention Programs’.

The types of services and supports available include:

  • Individual (one on one) counselling;
  • Therapeutic residential programs;
  • Case management.
  • Accountability Plans;
  • Workshops;
  • Group courses; and
  • Court-mandated programs within Western Australian prisons and through community corrections.

A central part of men’s programs and support services is ensuring the safety of adult and child victim-survivors. Therefore, interventions should include:

  • risk assessments;
  • support for victim-survivors and other family members; and
  • safety planning for victim-survivors.

 

Working with men

Working with men using specialist interventions is important for reducing and stopping family and domestic violence. Many men who choose to use violence want to stop using abusive behaviours in their relationship and need the support structures such as men’s behaviour change programs, family and domestic violence informed counselling or ongoing case management for the opportunity to stop and reflect on the choices they have made.

Programs or other interventions are an opportunity for men to work towards  being non-violent/abusive and building healthy and respectful relationships with their partners, ex-partners and children.

What men need to know

  • If you are a man who has engaged in support for abusive behaviours, then you have already taken the first step towards responsibility and change.
  • It is important to remember violence is a choice and men who perpetrate violence against women and children need to be willing and motivated to seek assistance for their violent and abusive behaviours.
  • Accepting that behaviours are problematic is the  first step  to seeking support.

Specialist services are committed to supporting men to address their abusive behaviors towards their partners/ex-partners and children.

Organisations that work with perpertrators of violence through mens behaviour change programs will provide partner contact. This looks different to each organisation however comprises of a worker having contact with the partner/ex partner in person or via phone while the perpertrator engaged in the programme. This can range from safety planning, financial supports and discussing program topics. This worker will also liaise with  facilitators to determine whether behaviours are ceasing or increasing.

An assessment may need to be completed before being accepted into a program/support service.

 

Men’s Behaviour Change programs vs. Anger Management

Men’s Behaviour Change Programs usually refer to group-based perpetrator interventions designed specifically to address family and domestic violence behaviours and to increase the safety of women and children. Programs are specifically designed for men who choose to use violence towards a partner or family member (usually partner, ex-partner and/or child)  The programs help men to understand how their attitudes and beliefs contribute to abuse and encourage men to be accountable for their behaviours. The programs recognise that perpetrators of family and domestic violence use specific and multiple tactics to coerce and control their victim and cause fear. Program content includes: reconsideration of attitudes and behaviours that relate to violence and abuse; creating an understanding of the impact of men’s choice to use violence on their partners and children; and developing alternative strategies to using violence.

Anger management programs aim to address men’s behaviour when they are unable to manage or regulate their emotions in response to stressful situations, resulting in acts of violence. A person with anger management issues could potentially use aggression or violence with people they interact with outside the home, such as, colleagues, acquaintances, shop attendants and others. Anger management programs work with individuals to improve emotional regulation, learn appropriate stress management and coping behaviours and effective communication.

Phone line support

The Men’s Domestic Violence Helpline
(08) 9223 1199
1800 000 599

Men’s Line
1300 78 99 78

Men’s Referral Service
1300 766 491

Intersections with other services

Men who choose to use violence can sometimes need to use additional services to address their behaviours or improve their health. For example, some men may need support for their mental health and/or their alcohol or other drug use. They also may be being seen by the Family Court, the Community Corrections or the Child Protection systems. First Nations men may need culturally-based support to heal from trauma they have suffered, or intergenerational trauma.

It is important to distinguish between Men’s Behaviour Change Programs for family and domestic violence and  other supports. It is not enough to just address one of these issues. For example, where a man drinks a lot of alcohol and also uses violence, he is encouraged to seek help for alcohol use AND for family and domestic violence.

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